Sales 101: 10 Tips to be a Great Salesperson
- Thrive Sales
- Dec 3, 2024
- 9 min read
Updated: Dec 17, 2024

Introduction
Welcome to the world of sales! Starting your journey in sales is exciting but can feel overwhelming at times. Sales isn’t about being pushy or manipulative; it’s about building relationships and solving problems. This guide is here to provide you with the foundational principles and actionable advice you need to succeed in your new career.
Tip 1: Mindset and Heartset Are Everything
The foundation of a successful sales career lies in your mindset and heartset. The best salespeople have strong mental fortitude and truly love what they do. This combination drives them to push through challenges and connect with clients on a deeper level.
Mental Fortitude: Sales is filled with ups and downs, but resilience is what keeps top performers moving forward. They embrace rejection as a stepping stone to success.
Confidence, Not Cockiness: Great sellers exude confidence because they believe in the value of what they offer. However, they balance this with humility, understanding that the goal is to solve problems, not to push a product.
Love What You Do: When you genuinely enjoy helping others and solving problems, it shows. Your passion creates trust and makes clients more receptive.
Actionable Tip: Start each day by reminding yourself of your mission: to help your clients overcome challenges and achieve their goals. This mindset will set a positive tone for your interactions.
Tip 2: The Power of Deep Product Knowledge in Sales
Confidence in sales comes from deeply understanding your product or service and how it helps solve problems. When you know your offering better than the back of your hand, you can engage with prospects confidently and handle objections effectively.
Master the FAB: Knowing the Features, Advantages, and Benefits (FAB) of your product is critical. This framework not only helps you present your product persuasively but also equips you to overcome objections by clearly connecting your solution to the client’s needs.
Prepare for the Unknown: Even with thorough knowledge, you will inevitably encounter a question you don’t know the answer to. When that moment comes—and it will—DO NOT LIE! Misrepresenting the truth can destroy your credibility and reputation. Instead, respond with honesty: “That’s a great question. I don’t know the answer off the top of my head, but I’ll find out and get back to you.” Follow through quickly to build trust and demonstrate reliability.
Actionable Tip: Create a quick-reference guide that outlines your product’s key FAB points and common questions. Use it to rehearse and refine your responses until they become second nature.
Tip 3: Build Relationships, Not Transactions
Many people will tell you that sales is all about relationships—and they’re right. How often do you buy something from someone you don’t like, even a little bit? Building strong relationships with your prospects and clients is essential for long-term success in sales.
Focus on Trust, Not Just Rapport: While it’s important to build a connection, the foundation of any sales relationship is trust. When customers trust you, they feel confident that you’re acting in their best interest, which makes them more willing to share their challenges and explore solutions with you.
Relationships Pay Dividends: A strong relationship doesn’t just help close the initial deal—it leads to repeat business, referrals, and a long-term partnership.
Make It About Them: Show genuine interest in their needs and challenges. Clients can sense when you care about helping them versus just closing a deal.
Actionable Tip: Focus on building rapport by being relatable and authentic. Use small talk to establish common ground, but always pivot back to their needs and how you can help.
Tip 4: Your Pipeline is Your Lifeline
Your pipeline will make or break your month, quarter, or year. If you’re not proactively prospecting to keep your pipeline full, you won’t achieve sustained success. Sure, you might get lucky now and then—after all, “even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in a while”—but luck won’t get you to the president’s club, the big awards, the hefty bonuses, or the coveted company-paid vacation.
Proactive Prospecting is Non-Negotiable: To find new business, you MUST prospect. Without it, you won’t have the opportunities necessary to close deals consistently.
The Law of Attrition: Every year, you’ll lose business through no fault of your own—companies change vendors, budgets shrink, priorities shift. A strong pipeline ensures you’re ready to offset these losses and continue growing.
Quality Over Quantity: Your pipeline is your lifeline, but don’t fill it with junk just to make it look good. Focus on adding qualified prospects who truly fit your ideal customer profile. A bloated but unqualified pipeline wastes your time and energy.
Actionable Tip: Dedicate time daily to prospecting, even if it’s just 30 minutes. Use this time to reach out to new leads, follow up with past prospects, or research potential customers. Consistency is the key to keeping your pipeline healthy and productive.
Tip 5: Ask Questions and Listen
Probing and open-ended questions are powerful tools for uncovering a customer’s challenges and problems. This is your chance to put on your detective hat and dig deeper to understand the real issues plaguing your customer. The more you uncover, the better equipped you’ll be to offer meaningful solutions.
The Power of Open-Ended Questions: Instead of yes/no answers, open-ended questions encourage customers to share details about their situation, needs, and pain points.
Probing for the Real Issues: Sometimes, the biggest problems aren’t immediately obvious. By asking thoughtful follow-up questions, you can uncover the deeper challenges that your product or service might solve.
Some of My Favorite Questions:
“Of all the challenges you’re facing in your job, which one gives you the most heartburn?”
“If you were promoted to CEO of your company, what’s the first thing you would change to make your replacement’s job easier?”
“How is this problem impacting your team or business?”
“What would success look like for you in solving this issue?”
“What does your current vendor do that you really like and what do you wish they could do a little better with?”
Listen Twice as Much as You Speak
There’s an old adage that says, “God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason.” It’s a reminder that we should listen twice as often as we speak. If you ask good questions, listening more than you talk should come naturally—but even experienced salespeople sometimes slip up.
When I catch myself talking too much during a sales call, I jot a little note in my notebook for my eyes only. The note simply says: “Shhhhh.” It’s a simple reminder to stop talking and let the customer share their thoughts. Listening deeply not only helps you uncover valuable insights but also builds trust and rapport.
Actionable Tip: After asking a question, practice pausing and counting to three silently before speaking again. This ensures you’re giving the client space to share their thoughts fully.
Tip 6: Handling Rejection
If you’re going to be in sales, you’re going to face rejection. It’s one of the hardest, if not the hardest, parts of sales. Some people will tell you that you need thick skin, but it’s not always that simple. Being told “no” hurts—even when you intellectually understand that the prospect isn’t rejecting you personally, it can still feel that way on some level.
This fear of rejection is why many less successful salespeople avoid prospecting or make excuses for not doing it. But here’s the thing: rejection is part of the game, and if you reframe it as an opportunity to learn, it becomes a powerful tool for improvement.
Reframe Rejection as Growth: A “no” today doesn’t mean it’s a “no” forever. Every rejection gives you a chance to learn something new. Watch your “film”—reflect on what happened, identify areas for improvement, and work to refine your skills.
Edison’s Perspective: While the exact wording is debated, Thomas Edison famously said of inventing the light bulb, “I haven’t failed. I just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Rejection is similar—it’s not a failure; it’s a step toward finding what works.
Objections Aren’t Rejections: Don’t confuse an objection with outright rejection. Objections are opportunities to address concerns and clarify misunderstandings, while rejection is a flat-out “no.” Understanding this distinction is crucial for navigating sales conversations effectively.
Actionable Tip: After every rejection, ask yourself three questions:
What went well in this interaction?
What could I have done better?
What will I do differently next time?
Rejection stings, but it’s also the key to growth. By embracing it as a learning tool, you’ll grow stronger and more effective with each interaction.
Tip 7: Track Metrics to Grow
The best sellers know their numbers. They know where they stand daily, if not hourly. A mentor of mine always said, “Inspect what you expect,” and to do that, you must track your metrics. Knowing your numbers helps you identify what’s working and where adjustments are needed.
However, there’s a balance to strike. While tracking is critical, don’t fall into the trap of analysis paralysis, where you spend so much time analyzing data that you lose focus on actually selling. Keep it simple and actionable.
Measure Key Metrics: Keep track of activities like the number of calls made, emails sent, meetings scheduled, and deals closed. These numbers help you see patterns and make data-driven decisions.
Set Goals: Establish specific, measurable goals for each activity. For example, aim to make 50 calls a week or schedule five new meetings. Breaking big goals into smaller, achievable ones keeps you focused and motivated.
Use the Data: Regularly review your metrics to identify what’s working. Are most of your deals coming from a specific industry? Are you struggling to close deals after initial meetings? Use this information to adjust your strategy.
Actionable Tip: Create a simple dashboard—whether in a CRM tool, spreadsheet, or notebook—to monitor your daily and weekly numbers. This will help you stay accountable and adjust quickly when needed.
Tip 8: The Power of Follow-Up and Consistency
Follow-up is where deals are won—or lost. Sometimes, a customer wants to see if you’re a fly-by-night seller or if you have what it takes to earn their business. Following up regularly shows that you’re serious, reliable, and invested in their success.
Too often, we lose deals because we ghosted the customer. We dragged our feet, thinking we should give them “some time” before our next call. Let me be clear: I’m not suggesting you be overly intrusive, calling five minutes after a meeting. But this isn’t dating—there’s no golden rule that says you must wait exactly 3 days, 6 hours, and 39 minutes before reaching out again.
Don’t Let Them Go Cold: If you have valuable information to share, give them a shout. Going cold on a client helps no one. Smart, timely follow-up keeps the momentum moving forward and ensures you stay top of mind.
Use Good Judgment: Be thoughtful in your approach. Follow up in a way that adds value, not pressure. Many deals are delayed—or sales cycles unnecessarily extended—because the salesperson thought it was “too soon” to call after submitting a proposal or quote.
Actionable Tip: After every meeting, plan your next follow-up before the call ends. Tell the client when they can expect to hear from you and what you’ll provide. Then, follow through as promised. This eliminates guesswork and reinforces your professionalism.
Tip 9: The Importance of Continuous Learning
Sales is a skill that requires constant refinement and practice.
Roleplaying for Success: Practice your pitch with a colleague or manager. Have them ask hard questions and throw objections your way. This way, you can work through challenges on the “practice field” rather than during the “big game.”
Learn on the Go: If you spend time driving to work or client meetings, use that windshield time to listen to audiobooks or podcasts. These are goldmines of insights, strategies, and inspiration that can make you sharper with every drive.
Stay in the Know: Subscribe to trade publications in your industry. Understanding industry trends and challenges gives you an edge with your prospects. A seller who’s in the know is a seller who’s good to go.
Attend Training Seminars and Meetings: Invest in your professional growth by attending sales training seminars, workshops, and industry conferences. These events provide fresh insights, new strategies, and opportunities to network with other professionals.
Actionable Tip: Set aside time each week for skill development. Whether it’s roleplaying, attending training sessions, or listening to podcasts, commit to consistent learning. Think of it as your “training camp” to stay at the top of your game.
Tip 10: Building and Protecting Your Reputation
Your reputation is one of your most valuable assets as a salesperson. It can take a lifetime to build but only moments to ruin. A strong reputation can open doors you didn’t even know existed. Customers will refer you to others, sometimes without you even asking. I’ve had customers I’ve never met call me out of the blue, saying, “I heard you’re the guy who can help me.” That’s the power of a good reputation.
Honesty is Key: One of the best ways to build a strong reputation is to always be honest. Do what you say you’ll do, and if you don’t, admit it. Nobody likes a liar, and dishonesty will tarnish your reputation faster than anything else.
Be Proactive: Customers appreciate when you’re ahead of the game. If there’s a potential issue, address it before it becomes a problem. I’ve gained a lot of business simply by being proactive and demonstrating that I’m on top of things.
Own Your Mistakes: Mistakes happen—it’s part of being human. If you drop the ball, own it. Don’t blame others or make excuses. If an order didn’t make it out the door, I didn’t point fingers at my team. Instead, I apologized to the customer and took responsibility. This level of accountability builds trust and respect.
Actionable Tip: After every customer interaction, ask yourself: Did I add to my reputation or take away from it? Make it your mission to consistently leave a positive impression, even in difficult situations.
Conclusion: Your Sales Journey Starts Here
Starting in sales can feel daunting, but by focusing on the fundamentals—mindset, knowledge, relationships, and consistency—you’re setting yourself up for success. Remember, every great salesperson started as a beginner. Progress is the goal, not perfection. Commit to learning, taking action, and improving every day.
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